The Gillie's Simplify Life

In a recent blog post, I mentioned that I felt the need to simplify and prioritize. Well, I'm taking it to a new level. After researching (I love my research) different minimalist lifestyle ideas, I decided that it was a direction I wanted to move our family in. I talked it over with Jimmy and he agreed to it. Or at least to minimize our closets. I was primarily inspired by an article titled "Why I got rid of all my kid's clothing". It just made sense. Right after reading it, I decided that this was something I wanted to do. I'll attach a link to the article at the end of this post. There were also a significant amount of quotes that inspired and motivated me. Here are some that I particularly liked:

 I love how simply this is.

"The more you have, the more occupied you are. The less you have, the more free you are."

 - Mother Theresa

This is something that I think we all need reminding of. It's so easy to get caught up in "looking" like how we think we should be...or how we think others want us to be. 

It's easy as that, folks.

I saved my favorite for last. I absolutely love this quote. When we love everything around us, we're more likely to take care of and enjoy it. When I'm in a space that is beautiful to me, I feel more a peace and more comfortable with myself. 

Last night, after already deciding to minimize, I was doing some scripture study and read something that confirmed to me that this really is the right move for our family and home. In the LDS Handbook in the first section and read this, "Wherever Church members live, they should establish a home where the Spirit is present." I don't know about you, but I feel the spirit so much more when our home is clean and tidy and stress free. Something that I know will come from purging. It continued by sharing the scripture D&C 88:119, "Organize yourselves; prepare every needful thing; and establish a house, even a house of prayer, a house of fasting, a house of faith, a house of learning,a house of glory, a house of order, a house of God;". I've heard this scripture many times, but this time it hit me hard. I guess it all just clicked. It's not enough to have a testimony or to say prayers together. We have to do it all...including organizing and making our house a house of order. It's a necessary part of making our house a house of God. (Obviously, God doesn't expect perfection. It's a process. To me that means constantly looking for ways to improve. I can't describe how excited I am to be doing this in our house. 

Over the next couple weeks, I will probably do a few blog posts about how purging experiences. Partly for those that are actually interest, but mostly for myself. I'm looking forward to seeing how much progress we can make and I think that this will help me to remain motivated and inspired and focused on my end goal.

Here are links to the articles that I found most helpful/inspiring/motivating (Starting with the one I mentioned earlier in the post). Please don't hesitate to give advice or ask questions.

Why I got rid of all my kid's clothing 

Infographic

15 minimalist hacks to maximize your life

Top ten reasons our family wants to live with less stuff

Seven tiny steps for the beginner minimalist

Until next time, 

Kyrstie

Thanksgiving In Branson, MO

We had the opportunity this past weekend to spend Thanksgiving with all of my extended family in Branson, MO. It was so great getting to see all of our family. The post will primarily be pictures of us, but first I wanted to take a moment to say how grateful I am for the blessings I've been given in my life. Family is everything to me and I'm so grateful to have Jimmy as my husband. He is so good to me. I can't imagine a better man for me or a better father for Sam. I'm so happy that I get to be Sam's mama. Motherhood has changed me in ways that I never imagined. It's so amazing to see how he learns and grows and develops every day. I love that silly boy so much. I'm also very grateful for the atonement of Jesus Christ. I'm thankfully that Jesus willingly suffered and died and then rose again. I'm so grateful that I can return to Heavenly Father again someday. Okay, enough of my mushiness. Here's some fun pictures.

Jimmy standing in front of the Mickey Gilley Theater. No relation, but we took a picture anyway.

Sam and Remington loved playing in the jetted tub that was in the bedroom. It was ridiculously cute.

Kyrstie and Tom Hanks

Jimmy and James Bond

Us with Nick Cage. I didn't get the "pouty face" memo, apparently.

I got in bed with Hugh Hefner! Oh, my!

Jimmy had fun doing some karate with Owen Wilson and Jackie Chan.

On Friday, we went to old town and enjoyed walking around to the antique stores. In Dicks 5 &10 they had an interesting soda section. The flavors included ranch, bacon, and buffalo wings. 

We had so much fun taking pictures of Sam.

Isn't this boy the cutest?!

Playing in the leaves!

Sam got pretty attached to Grandpa during this trip. Particularly Grandpa's mustache.

Having a good time at the fish hatchery.

On the way home, we stopped at the Buffalo River National Park. We really enjoy scenic drives.

Sam loved the break from the car.

This was the amazing view of the Boston Mountains in Arkansas.

That's it for now, but I will be posting again soon. I promise!

Focus On Family

With the holiday season upon us, I have been thinking a lot about family and what it means to me. I've been so incredibly blessed with a loving husband and a cutie-pie of a son. They bring so much joy to me life. It's amazing how much those two can make me laugh. I recently read a quote from Marjorie Pay Hinckley that really got me thinking. It says, "We women have a lot to learn about simplifying our lives. We have to decide what is important and then move along at the right pace that is comfortable for us. We have to develop the maturity to stop trying to prove something. We have to learn to be content with what we are." Lately, I've been feeling the need to simplify my own life. Too often, I find myself worrying and stressing over things that don't really matter. What matters most is family. I've decided (starting today) that I am going to make sure family comes first. A big step for me is deleting my facebook account. With it's easy accessibility, I find myself taking a few minutes here and there to peruse facebook when really I should be spending those precious few minutes playing on the floor with Sam, hugging Jimmy or doing something productive for myself like reading or sewing. So, these are my random thoughts. Bet you're glad you read this, huh? Just joking. I hope that someone got something from this. I definitely did.

Until next time,

Kyrstie

November 2014 Update on the Gillie Family

Hi to all of our friends and family! Life is good here in Little Rock. We've been here for two months now and are really enjoying it. The ward here is super friendly...always a plus! We really feel like we fit in and are needed/appreciated. Which is important after feeling very isolated in our last ward. The weather here is getting cold, which is fun and awful at the same time. I really hate fighting Sam into a coat every time we go out. Oh, well. So...now that I've had random ramblings about Arkansas, I will update you on all the family members and happenings.

Sam:

Sam is now (almost) 17 months old and huge. He is currently 28 lbs and I can't believe my arms aren't more toned. Seriously. He's so heavy. At his last appointment, he was in the 90-96% for height, weight, and head circumference. Our pediatrician didn't believe me when I told her that Jimmy is "normal" sized. Haha. We're definitely seeing changes in independence lately. He loves to do the things we do....sitting on the couch, "helping" mom cook, running, dancing, and playing peek-a-boo. It's so fun to see him learning and growing. We really love it. And him. Seriously, he's the cutest. His little smile melts our hearts.

Jimmy is doing well in navigator training with the C-130s here at Little Rock AFB. The training here is so much more relaxed than it was while we were in Florida. It's amazing. We actually get to spend time together! We're loving it! Jimmy is really enjoying the work he's doing and, honestly, he's awesome at it. Not that he will tell you that himself. He has five more months left of training here and then he will be with his reserve unit at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery. We're looking forward to living somewhere for more than a few months! (We've moved five times in the last two years!)

There's not much to update people on about me. I recently decided to learn how to sew. It's going well (I think)...youtube has been a great resource! I haven't been sewing for more than a week and already Sam has PJ bottoms out the wazoo. But, hey, every toddler should have a nice array of pjs to choose from, right?

And now for everyone's favorite part....Pictures!

Jimmy, Kyrstiegillie and Sam at the cornbread festival in downtown Little Rock. We had a blast!

Gail and Doran (Jimmy's parents) came for a visit last weekend and Sam loved getting some grandparent time in. 

Going on a family walk. 

We also got a visit from Nicole and her kiddos, Lily and Simon (Nicole is Jimmy's younger sister). This photo is one of the only times when Sam wasn't trying to smack Lily. Apparently we need to spend more time around other kids. 

This is a more accurate photo of how the week went for us. 

I don't actually remember taking this photo, but it must have been to prove that they can be nice. 

We found this awesome hat when we took Nicole to our favorite thrift store. Sam seemed to really like it. 

 We took Nicole to downtown little rock and had a blast. Even though it was so cold! This is Nicole and Lily and Simon in front of "Little Rock". 

This is a pig statue that you're supposed to touch for good luck. 

An empty random phone booth that we like for some reason that can't really be explained. 

It took a ridiculously long time to get Sam to cooperate for this picture with Simon. But it was worth it! By the way, they are wearing diapers. I promise. 

This is a photo we took after Sam "helped" me bread some chicken. We took the two chicken breasts he was holding before the picture. What a mess!

Until next time,

Kyrstie and Fam

Moving Craziness!

I'm ashamed at how long it's been since I last posted! But, I have semi-good excuses. We've done tons of traveling this summer and are in the middle of a move. Literally. We move in a mere five days, will spend four days in Montgomery and will arrive at our new home on Sept. 2nd. Wish us luck! We will be in Little Rock for about seven months, so our plan is to leave most of our belongings in storage and only take to Arkansas what we can fit in the van. It's been insane trying to get everything packed. Jimmy has been very busy at work, so he hasn't had a lot of opportunities to do packing. But, when he is home, he gets so much done! I wish I could be that productive!

We're very excited to be moving to a new city. One of our favorite things to do is explore a new place and try new things. Especially trying new restaurants. And there are lots of those in Little Rock. We've decided to live on base and are feeling very good about our choice. We don't really feel that we fit in with the military culture, but we are looking forward to Jimmy being able to ride his bike to work, being around other families that are similar to ours, and being close to shopping.

So, as always, we have tons of pictures to share. Hopefully next time we won't go as long between blog posts, but if we do....please don't judge.

Kyrstie

Our new house!

Sam: "we're moving?!" Just kidding. He was yawning. But seriously, isn't this far the cutest?! 

We had to eat at McGuire's Itish Pub before leaving Pensacola. It's a classic. 

Our big walker! Also, pretty sure he's rocking the skinny jeans. 

Photos galore

It's been so long! So long in fact that I have no desire to sit down and write out everything. So instead I'm just going to post tons of pictures. So if that's not your thing feel free to move along :)

The mardi gras museum

Christmas time with aunt Erin 

Lunch at Peg Leg Pete's 

Goofing during general conference

Me and my niece Lily trying on hats 

At the highest point in Florida!

Family hike

A day at the beach

Sam's first hockey game...he loved it. 

Poor Nicole 

That's all for today. Thanks for stopping by!